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Becoming mindful and maintaining that
state does not happen by accident. We
are asked occasionally whether the development
of mindfulness has a place in the business
world. We answer with an enthusiastic,
“Yes!” Mindfulness is the
practical application of self-awareness,
self-management and social awareness;
in short, developing mindfulness means
developing emotional intelligence. What
has been know and practiced for thousands
of years in the world’s greatest
religious and philosophical traditions
is only now becoming known in Western
study of management and leadership. Self-awareness
really does matter, and so does consciously
managing our habitual thoughts, feelings,
and responses.
As we have pointed out in this book and
in other writings self-awareness is a
fundamental component of emotional intelligence
that has a positive impact not only on
our personal development and well-being,
but on the bottom line as well. So, mindfulness
is not just a nice-to-have - it makes
a difference in performance.
Assuming we have a desire to develop
our capacity for mindfulness, what can
we actually do? We know from our practice
and that of our colleagues that there
are many paths to mindfulness, from purely
cognitive “training” to Buddhist
meditation practices to corporate programs
such as working with a coach. We recommend
a combination of reflection, practice
and supportive relationships. Adjusting
one’s thought patterns is usually
necessary, since most of us have developed
automatic, habitual cognitive processes
that do not serve us well. This means
that most of us have to engage in a process
of intentional change….
It takes a lot of self-control to manage
the inevitable stress and power dynamics
inherent in leadership. If you do not
have time for yourself, to reflect, to
find peace, you will become lost. And
if you do not have time for yourself,
you will not be good for anyone else.
Reflection is one way to build a path
of renewal into your life. This includes
finding opportunities to stay calm and
centered. When you are resonant within
yourself, you can create resonance with
others. It is not possible to become mindful
if we do not allow our mind, body, heart,
and spirit to speak to us, and it is very
hard to hear those quiet voices in the
noisy, busy world we live in.
excerpted from
Resonant Leader
Richard Boyatzis & Annie McKee
Harvard Business School Press - 2005
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Many of us may remember the first time
we rode a bicycle. For me, I was around
4 years old and my dad would take me out
in the back alleyway of our home and show
me how to peddle, steer and apply the
brakes. Since I had training wheels, I
could feel a kind of confidence in my
efforts, pretending to have balance and
feeling my way. Eventually, my dad removed
the training wheels. He would run behind
me holding the seat, keeping me steady
and urging me on - slightly letting go,
only to grab hold once again as I tipped
to the right or left.
One morning after breakfast we went out
to practice riding once again. We started
at the top of the hill, my dad holding
onto the seat and guiding me as we picked
up speed. I’ll never forget saying
to my dad “Boy, we’re really
going fast this time!” Not hearing
a response, I turned to him. There he
was, way back at the other end of the
alley, watching me triumphantly. I realize
today that it wasn’t really my dad
that had let go on that morning in the
alleyway behind our home - I had.
I had let go for the very first time.
Let go of my fear of falling, my desire
to ride a bike, my need for training wheels.
I had let go of my hesitations and trusted
myself to be fully with the moment. For
the first time in my life I had totally
relied on myself - my natural sense of
flexibility, alertness, and grace –
I had learned Balance.
This simple act of riding a bike for
the first time has remained fresh in my
mind through the years for it perfectly
illustrates how we can learn balance at
work - in deed in our lives. Our effort
to get somewhere whether in our careers,
our lives or in simply riding a bike depends
on first being somewhere: “letting
go” of our hopes, fears, desires,
habits, routines and trusting ourselves
fully in the present moment. Trust that
we can ride a bike without training wheels;
trust that we can build a career without
hope and fear; trust that we can live
a life without resentment and complaint.
We can “let go” and trust
ourselves and in turn, we discover balance
in simply being present: an alertness
that is resourceful, flexible and relaxed.
By “letting go” of our hesitations
and discovering balance we learn one of
life’s great lessons: In order for
us to get somewhere we have to be somewhere
first.
excerpted from
Awake at Work
By Michael Carroll
Shambhala Publications, 2004
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It seems likely that the outcomes of mindfulness
can help improve and enrich a law student
or lawyer's performance on virtually any
task, from learning and manipulating rules,
to drafting documents and litigating cases.
In addition... mindfulness sometimes deepens
and clarifies a person's awareness. Jerry
Conover, of counsel to Faegre and Bensom
in Denver, says that it affects his overall
state of mind, giving him a "balancing
and bottoming perspective that is unshakeable."
Steven Schwartz, head of a public interest
disability law firm based in Northhampton,
Massachusetts, says it helps him think
creatively. Sometimes when he is meditating,
without trying for anything, solutions
to practical problems in the office occur
to him; on some days, the outline of an
entire brief will come to him, and, he
says "it is sublimely, precisely
correct." In addition, the practice
helps him connect with the feelings of
compassion for his clients. "It is
singularly why", Schwartz says, "I've
been able to do the same work for twenty-seven
years without being overwhelmed by the
pain and my feelings for these devalued
people." It has also deepened his
understanding of the motives of people
involved in his case and keeps him motivated
for "the long haul". The peaceful
presence of a lawyer who practices mindfulness
mediation is likely to affect the client
too.
excerpted from
Harvard Negotiaiton Law Review
Spring 2002
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There is surely nothing other than the
single purpose of the present moment.
A man’s whole life is a succession
of moment after moment. If one fully understands
the present moment, there will be nothing
else to do, and nothing else to pursue.
Live being true to the single purpose
of the moment.
Everyone lets the present moment slip
by, then looks for it as though he thought
it were somewhere else. No one seems to
have noticed this fact. But grasping this
firmly, one must pile experience upon
experience. And once one has come to this
understanding he will be a different person
from that point on, though he may not
always bear it in mind.
When one understands this settling into
single-mindedness well, his affairs will
thin out. Loyalty is also contained within
this single-mindedness.
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Mindfulness or sitting meditation
is a friendly gesture towards ourselves
where we take time to simply be
and the mindfulness developed in the practice
naturally unfolds on the job guiding us
to Be Authentic, precise and
decent. Sitting down and being still is
at the heart of being awake at work. Yet,
such meditation can not be rushed or forced,
so we need not hurry; we can be flexible
with ourselves and our life circumstances
as we learn this practice.
To learn more: http://www.awakeatwork.net/about/med.html
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Embracing the Journey
Radio discussion with Karen Humphries Sallick
December 16: 1pm - 2pm |
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Carelton College - Antheneum Library
Northfield, Minnesota
Cultivating sanity at work
The ancient wisdom of Tibetan Buddhism meets
the modern workplace February 2,
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Northfield Buddhist Center
Northfield, Minnesota The sanity
of mindfulness: transforming confusion into
wisdom February 3-5 |
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Awake
at Work - Discussion and book signing
Baltimore, Maryland
The Shambhala Center of Baltimore
March 3, 2006
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Kripalu
Center for Yoga and Health
Lojong: 7 points of Mind Training March
5-10, 2006 |
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Introduction to mindfulness meditation
Swarthmore, Pa.
Strath Haven Swarthmore School
March 16,23,30; April 6
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The
Outrageous and Inscrutable Warrior
Philadelphia, Pa.
The Shambhala Center of Philadelphia
March 17 - 19, 2006 |
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Mindfulness in the workplace
Cincinnati, Ohio
Procter & Gamble March 22
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The
Jewel Ornament of Liberation
Philadelphia, Pa.
The Shambhala Center of Philadelphia
March 27; April 3, 10, 17, 22. |
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Northshire Bookstore
Manchester, Vermont
Book signing March 31, 2006 |
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Karme Choling
7 day Awake at Work Retreat
Barnet Vermont
May 19 - 26 |
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The
Path of the Awakened Heart
Philadelphia, Pa.
Wake Up Yoga
May 3,10,17,31; June 3
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50% of middle managers describe themselves
as “highly dissatisfied” with
their employers; 33% of middle managers
describe their workplace as “mismanaged”.
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1
out 4 top execs experiences a severe bout
with suicidal depression.
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81%
of those suffering from depression also
have disordered sleep patterns.
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(Fox
& Langer, 2000) found that the more
mindful one is in engaging a subject,
the more it is liked.
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Mindfulness based cognitive therapy has
been shown to significantly reduce depression
relapses: 66% relapse rate in the control
group to 37% relapse rate in the treatment
group.
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Researchers from Yale, Harvard, Massachusetts
General Hospital, and the Massachusetts Institute of Technology
documented that regular practice of meditation is associated with increased
thickness in brain tissue related to sensory, auditory, visual and
internal perception, such as heart rate or breathing. The researchers
also found that regular meditation practice may slow age-related
thinning of the frontal cortex.
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Mindfulness
disciplines are now used in more than
200 medical centers throughout the US
successfully treating pain, cardiovascular
disease and the effects of cancer therapy.
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